Helping others receive freedom requires understanding of brokenness and healing. Many believers expect quick fixes. We want a camp, a short-course, a conference, or an encounter that eliminates most of the issues and the pain that we face.
Although this does seem to happen on rare occasion, more often God uses a process. Even when God does meet us, appearing to bring quick release, I believe this is either the culmination of less obvious work that He had been doing previously, or a jump start to a new season of healing. Slow healing over the process of time builds intimacy with God and compassion for others that wouldnt happen if we were instantly cured of all our ills.
Philippians 1:6 being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.
On a variety of occasions I have witnessed believers struggle with judgments toward others who are on a healing journey whose problems are surfacing. I have heard some express it this way: I got saved and all my problems were resolved. Unfortunately the fruit of pride and criticism towards struggling believers is evident. Such attitudes towards human brokenness is expressed in demands for others to fix themselves. When I have seen this, I have wanted to say, Look, if it was just as easy as making a decision to be whole, they would have done it already.
Sometimes people feel frustrated with how long the process is taking. When we understand that the journey of freedom progresses at a different pace for each person, this helps limit the frustration. Its about learning to trust Gods promise to finish every work He begins. The timing and completion of God’s work is His job, not ours.
We often distrust our own or others’ brokenness, thinking that the goal is to have no problems. We can become insecure with the way God works in others or even ourselves. This breeds distrust in God and judgments towards each other. God’s work in us is so different. He is incredibly patient. Instant perfection is not as important to Him as developing our character filling us with His grace and compassion.